People who have social anxiety disorder are often perceived incorrectly by others. They tend to be viewed as quiet, shy, withdrawn and unfriendly. This is why they have such a difficult time making friends.
But in reality, these individuals do want to make friends. They want to be included in group activities and they want to have strong social interactions with others. Their condition prevents them from being able to do this. Their fear and anxiety about how they will be seen and judged is extremely strong, and it often holds them back.
People with social phobia often find it hard to cope when met with the following:
- Situations that could be embarrassing.
- Looking others in the eye.
- Meeting someone new and being introduced.
- Being the center of attention.
- Meeting authority figures.
- Being criticized or teased in any way.
- Having to make a speech or say something in a public setting.
- Being observed while they are doing something.
- Making phone calls in public.
There are many emotions that accompany those feelings of fear. They include:
- Extreme anxiety.
- Feeling nervous.
- A racing heart.
- Blushing.
- Excessive sweating.
- Muscle twitches.
- A dry mouth and throat.
- Trembling and shaking.
Some people will even develop a sense of dysmorphia that concerns a part of their body; usually the face. They will start to see themselves in a negative light and have irrational thoughts about themselves. But the most common symptom is a constant, intense sensation of fear coupled with anxiety.